Ohh, thanx PreciousGem! You’re an angel!

To be honest that, we’ve seen one another for nearly 2 months now. We came across in Asia and both residing right here. I happened to be clubbing with a few close friends in which he arrived as much as me personally and attempted to flirt beside me. I wasn’t really interested in the beginning. Anyhow, he got my quantity plus the day that is next wished to satisfy. We hung out as friends for quite some right some time then it got more severe. He says i’m a “rad girl”, “smart girl”, ” great girl” etc. I ought to point out he’s from Ca and that neither of us was shopping for a relationship.

I am aware he’s seeing other girls and that’s cool with med coz i wanna keep it casual for so long as feasible. Maybe that’s why i’m a bit cool with my emotions sometimes, because we don’t wanna show to much. I do believe each of us are simply afraid we both like each other really much that it’s gonna get more serious and “complicated”, but. That results in our strange behavior against one and another I suppose.

The things I find strange is exactly exactly how available he could be with commentary about girls. He speaks for me about girls like i’m their buddy that is male or. In sweden we don’t accomplish that, unless we’re close friends. But me personally and him are far more than buddies.

He’s additionally very hassle free together with emotions. I’m like this often and often maybe perhaps not. We swedish individuals don’t wanna show to much and seem that is klingy in the beginning; )

I will tell without a doubt that there’s a difference that is big Swedish dudes and American dudes: ) swedish dudes are a great deal more “understanding”. Us guys actually has to show he’s the person.

I believe it was it for the time being. I did son’t believe that Americans and Swedes had been therefore various. Now I understand…; )

Hi Swedish girl,

Oh wow. Your relationship is truly one thing. After all I’ve been here prior to. Really relationship that is almost exact. My advice for you will be play the role of truthful with him. That’s sometimes the issue with this particular males right here. I believe he’s playing brain games over you as well with you because he do not want to look like he’s so crazy. Well, then leave your relationship just the way it is if you think you don’t want any more with him. But, you need to set a boundary. You need to simply tell him with them when you guys are together that you don’t need to hear about other women and what he do. Make sure he understands it is this kind of change down. As well as if he’s taking a look at other girls whenever you dudes are together, attempt to imagine you don’t even note that he’s looking or perhaps you can be frank and simply tell him never to disrespect you love that. Well, i am hoping it really works down for you personally. Goodluck!

Oh now I wish to inquire of you to answer a concern. Does men that are swedish like Swedish girls? Or can I say, do they just such as the Blondes and Blue eyes girls?

Yeah, we’ve a realationship that is strange. No it is perhaps maybe not so we are allowed to date others i guess that he is hitting on girls in front of me or anything like that but he is very open about other girls looks etc. We’re kinda in a “dating” stage right now. Nevertheless now he’s been startint to call me “his girl”… it’s like everytime we’re seroius that is getting we’re back into square one once more. Haha, it is known by me’s strange. Anyhow, i assume i should simply benefit from the trip and find out what goes on.

To your question… Oh no! Swedish men will not only such as the blondes and blue eyes girls. I believe lots of people think that since it’s those girls whom you begin to see the many, and the ones will also be girls you associoate with “swedish girls”. Needless to say you will find swedish men who prefers blondes with blue yes but there’s also those who don’t. You will find plenty diferrent kinds of girls in Sweden.